Muslims in London

I think my inner mean girl is going to have to be out now because clearly when you are kind people think you are stupid ok we all dumb together now

Is it just me or society making marriage seem like more and more of a burden. We are taught from young that marriage is the right way to date through deen but I look around I just see people getting divorced marrying people they ain’t compatible with and fighting over custody. Casual dating is starting to seem more reasonable for me tbh

I find most girls have lost interest in marriage. They just talk and date. Why is that? Seriously

What a crappy day. Anyone got a motorbike for a spin?

I just want one vital thing from her -
Make my house a Home.
I will take care of the rest.

Do you think most relationships fail because people change…
or because they were never really seen properly from the start?

Is there any divorced woman in Sylhet,
whose husband is dead or her husband is separated,,living in UK,,
even if she has children, it is not a problem for me

I live in London

I have no parents

If there is such a person, please contact me and get married..🙏
And I am willing to do any kind of work to be with her. No need to pay any money

height 5'7
waight :58
age 28

'Marriage' is a divine blessing, designed to bring simplicity and ease. Yet we are the ones to overcomplicate it.

'Divorce' is divinely disliked, yet tolerated and prescribed only as a final last resort solution.
However, we have come to oversimplify it.

What has become of the strength of the collective Muslim?
Individually, we can't even get our priorities in order 😔

And yes, we are living in a wild and chaotic world for sure! Everyones' lives, journeys and circumstances are impacted at different paces... Allah swt is the best of planners (However, that ought to be no excuse! Let go of your ego's; there is no one, who is born more special than another).

I've witnessed both single men & women (both looking for partners on here), go on to squabble over small pettiness and hypothetical what if's, what but's, what not's and what must be's... and then find it impossible to reconcile differences whilst continuing to shame, blame and slander the other.
(It is not only demoralising for those directly involved, but also demoralising and unsightly for all those who just so happen to be caught reading the public discourse. It will not instil much confidence or high hopes within anyone reading past, of finding a partner on these muslim online apps).

Honestly, what has happened to simple kindness, respect and polite understanding?
Surely we have the capacity to offer an opinion without slandering a person, or a whole group? And surely we can disagree with an opinion, without offering ridicule or disrespect?
But equally, lets learn to not be so easily triggered and become over sensitive sallies either (sincerest apologies, and no disrespect to anyone named Sally on here!)

Just to iterate, what is the purpose of a marriage?
Is it simply a divine "code of law" transactional contract, designed to set out worldly expectations and duties owed, between a paired man and a woman?
OR
Is it a divine union, to help enjoin both man & woman in partnering, so that both may attain peace/comfort and fulfil a far greater benefit & oath?

I wonder sometimes, how are we suppose to guide the younger next generation of Muslims and raise them as proud and strong hearted believers? Who will be their shining exemplary stars of hope, if all they witness, is us bickering amongst each other? Is that what they are destined to inherit and mimic from us?

Genuinely, it is such a disheartening state of affairs, that we as a ummah have fallen into.
I do not say that we all need to be 100% perfect... But, we must all strive to do better; we must welcome each other better; we must learn to communicate with each other better... because we are sadly failing our personal own youth, and also for those rising from amongst our youth 😔
(I have multiple bright young nephews and nieces, and I do genuinely worry about the legacy we are leaving behind for their futures)

Sadly it seems that division, fear and mistrust has become the prevalent guiding principles in today's modern society... and unfortunately divorce is becoming far more easier and greater, than getting married 😟

Whats the first few things you notice when looking at a woman/man ?

*Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh.

I am a Bangladeshi man, 26 years old, currently working in Saudi Arabia. Alhamdulillah, I perform the five daily prayers regularly and strive to live according to Islamic values and principles.

I am looking for an honest, responsible, humble, and family-oriented life partner. With mutual understanding and the consent of both families, I would like to get married according to Islamic teachings.

Brief Introduction: • Age: 26 • Occupation: Expatriate worker in Saudi Arabia (working at Masjid al-Haram) • Marital Status: Single • Siblings: None, I am the only child in my family • Father: Passed away (May Allah grant him Jannatul Firdaus) • Mother: Alhamdulillah, she is alive

If anyone knows of a suitable, practicing Muslim woman with good character, please feel free to contact me via inbox.

JazakAllahu Khairan.

আসসালামু আলাইকুম ওয়া রাহমাতুল্লাহ।
আমি একজন বাংলাদেশি, বয়স ২৬ বছর। বর্তমানে সৌদি আরবে পবিত্র ****-এ কর্মরত আছি। আলহামদুলিল্লাহ, আমি নিয়মিত পাঁচ ওয়াক্ত নামাজ আদায় করি এবং ইসলামী মূল্যবোধ মেনে চলার চেষ্টা করি।
আমি একজন সৎ, দায়িত্বশীল, বিনয়ী ও পারিবারিক মূল্যবোধসম্পন্ন জীবনসঙ্গী খুঁজছি। আমাদের দুজনের মতামত এবং উভয় পরিবারের সম্মতিতে ইসলামী শরিয়াহ অনুযায়ী বিবাহবন্ধনে আবদ্ধ হতে আগ্রহী।
সংক্ষিপ্ত পরিচয়:• বয়স: ২৬ বছর• পেশা: সৌদি আরব প্রবাসী (মসজিদুল হারামে কর্মরত)• বৈবাহিক অবস্থা: অবিবাহিত• ভাই-বোন: নেই, আমি পরিবারের একমাত্র সন্তান• বাবা: ইন্তেকাল করেছেন (আল্লাহ তাঁকে জান্নাতুল ফিরদাউস নসীব করুন)• মা: আলহামদুলিল্লাহ, জীবিত আছেন
যদি কারও কাছে উপযুক্ত কোনো দ্বীনদার ও উত্তম চরিত্রের পাত্রীর সন্ধান থাকে, তাহলে ইনবক্সে যোগাযোগ করার অনুরোধ রইল।
জাযাকুমুল্লাহু খাইরান।*