Divorced Muslims

Being on Muzz has so far been a stifling experience. Indeed, life is an art, and not everyone is an artist.

But we must at least know our purpose of being on this platform. Too many expectations, too many lusts.

Most of the people that I have come across are takers, not givers. They want to take your time, energies and resources but not willing to share much in return.

Marriage has more to do with Afterlife. It helps you stay protected against Satan and his temptataions. When you say, "qubool ha", you take an oath that I will try to protect him/her and try my best to help him/her reach Jannat ul Firdaus.

I dont feel like I will ever be able to find a suitable partner here.

Name: Dareen Shah
Gender: Female
City: Haripur
Country: Pakistan
Caste: Syed (Sunni)
Language: Pushto
Age: 37
Height: 5.4
Color: Fair
Took Khula...
Qualification: MPhil

#Requirements
Divorced or Single (depends). Need to live separate after marriage — no joint family system (not willing). Must be Pukhtoon.
Kindly strong men (not mommy's boy) ☺ who are heartily strong enough to stand by in any circumstances, inbox. I hate cowards, weak men. 😊 I like men who are financially, emotionally, and intellectually strong, with good behaviour/manners… responsible and respectful according to the Sunnah of our Nabi (SAW).
Rest qualities Allah Almighty will put in the relationship… trust, love, care, affection, etc., can be seen later 😎

Make sure you come from your real account with picture ✌🍓

NOTE DOWN: Stop wasting YOUR TIME AND ENERGY if you can't send your real pictures or profile details. 😎✌🤲

The Woman Who Can’t Be Happy Will Eventually Make You Miserable

Let’s tell the truth.

You cannot build a happy life with someone who is committed to being unhappy.

Because misery spreads.

And eventually,
the woman who can’t enjoy her own life
will stop you from enjoying yours.

Let’s break it down.

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1. Nothing Is Ever Enough

The apartment is too small.

The house is too old.

The car is too cheap.

The vacation is too short.

The ring is too small.

The promotion took too long.

The problem isn’t the circumstances.

The problem is her.

Because a woman who can’t be satisfied
will turn blessings into disappointments.

And over time?

You’ll stop celebrating your wins.

Because she’ll find a way to ruin them.

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2. She Mistakes Gratitude for Settling

Happy people practice gratitude.

Miserable people practice comparison.

She is always looking sideways.

Always watching another woman’s marriage.

Another woman’s husband.

Another woman’s lifestyle.

Another woman’s vacation.

And social media gave her unlimited opportunities to be dissatisfied.

Now she doesn’t enjoy what she has.

She obsesses over what somebody else has.

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3. She Turns Peace Into Boredom

A peaceful home feels boring to her.

A stable marriage feels predictable.

A loyal husband feels ordinary.

So she creates problems where none existed.

Arguments.
Drama.
Tension.
Chaos.

Because some people are so accustomed to emotional turbulence

that peace feels uncomfortable.

And if she can’t live without drama—

she’ll manufacture it.

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4. She Makes You Responsible for Her Happiness

This is where many men get trapped.

You buy more.

Work more.

Earn more.

Sacrifice more.

Give more.

Trying to fill a hole that has no bottom.

But happiness is an inside job.

And a woman who cannot make herself happy

will eventually blame you for every emotion she cannot manage.

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5. Her Misery Becomes Your Environment

At first you notice her negativity.

Later you start adapting to it.

You stop laughing.

Stop dreaming.

Stop celebrating.

Stop sharing good news.

Because every positive moment gets met with criticism,
complaints,
or disappointment.

Now you’re not living.

You’re managing moods.

And that’s one of the fastest ways for a man to lose himself.

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6. She Doesn’t Want Solutions—She Wants Dissatisfaction

You solve one problem.

She finds another.

You fix that one.

She creates a new one.

Because some people are not attached to solutions.

They’re attached to complaining.

Their identity depends on dissatisfaction.

And without a problem to discuss,

they don’t know who they are.

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Final Word

The woman who can’t be happy will eventually make you miserable.

Not because she’s evil.

Because emotions are contagious.

Spend enough years around chronic dissatisfaction

and eventually it becomes your normal too.

So don’t just ask:

“Is she beautiful?”

Ask:

“Can she enjoy life?”

Because beauty won’t create peace.

Money won’t create peace.

Success won’t create peace.

But gratitude often does.

And a woman who cannot appreciate what she has

will eventually destroy everything she gets.

Including you.

Love starts a marriage.
Emotional intelligence sustains it.😌

I am travelling from Manchester to Liverpool for 2 days any lady would like to join??

The price of ignoring your gut feeling can be very expensive. Once you've gone through your worst times alone, you stop worrying about who stays in your life. And remember: toxic people rarely change themselves,they only change their victims.

Assalamualaikum I am looking for a wife plain and simple 🫣 🫣

Hi everyone 👋🤗

Smile please ☺️

Why age shaming on muzz.guys below 30 specially poke Thier nose in profiles of ladies or men above 40 and gets v annoyed of fact that the people of our age group above 40 are also here.they actually want us to die after 40 instead of looking for life partner.isnt it blessing of Allah that we are still alive more experienced mature active full of life despite all sorrows we endured but still we are standing against all odds and ready to rise again.keep the beautiful example of hazrat Khadija who proposed Hazrat Muhammad peace be upon him at age of 45 when nbi pak was just 25.Islam is the most liberal religion it doesn't put any restriction then who are u to humiliate just on the base of age.plz mind ur own business and stay in ur own age group