Divorced Muslims
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One day, you’ll look back at this quiet, “boring” season and realize:
It saved you.
It taught you to need less, trust Allah more, and never again beg for love that was never meant to cage your soul.
Where is girl to merry, just intro no more discussions and nothing to finalize.... wt
Feelings ar visitors
Let them come
Let them Go
I have a question for the divorced men here. How many of you are looking to marry for companionship, not to have children? Are you still okay with being the sole provider if your wife doesn't have your children?
I have never married and I don't have children. I've been open to marrying a divorced man for a couple of years now. This depends on why he's divorced, how long he's been divorced, how many times he got divorced, and the religion of his ex-wife. I don't want to risk marrying a cheater or an abuser who doesn't treat marriage seriously, and perhaps lived a hedonistic life and has a preference for girls outside of his own.
Due to a change in my circumstances, I realised that I'm okay with not having children of my own. So I've been opened minded about men with children. I have conditions for them too. The children must be from wedlock, they must not be too young, he must be in his children's lives regularly, he isn't ever with the mother, and he's not looking for a replacement mother.
However, I'm finding it difficult to find divorced men who doesn't want any more children, whether they already have children or not. Most divorced men have "Wants children" on their profile, but I'm looking for men with the "Open to having children" tag (or no tag at all), like I do. I would consider having children with a divorced man who has no children, but I'm not interested in being a second baby mother. And I don't want a man to compromise on not having children with me and then regret it later.
To those of you who wants more children, why? At the moment, I'm getting more matches from never married men with no children. 🫤
My son’s school is having its annual parents vs kids kickball game today. It’s during time when he’s with his mother. On Friday at the conclusion of his basketball game he asked me not to go and participate in the kickball game because of the tension it would create with his mother. It breaks my heart, but I will respect his wishes. I don’t want to create any unnecessary conflict or tension for them. Masha’Allah. At 11 I appreciate his courage to speak up.
Very difficult to marry a person 2nd time by ignoring their personality when your husband from first marriage was having a good personality. 😪 part of me regreting.