After so many years the news of my divorce has leaked at work. It feels as if the divorce happened only yesterday and seeing everyone whisper about it hurts. But I guess that just how corporate culture works people love to criticize you from afar but nobody actually comes up to check on you or ask the truth

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Ayoub

@Ayoub3722

13 days ago

I didn’t know why people here still single lol

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Muhammad Hydara

@Muhammad18467309

13 days ago

This isn't toxic. This isn't insecurity. This is called having standards.

And there's a difference between a secure, confident woman and a doormat — and that difference lives exactly here. In knowing which situations deserve your comfort and which ones deserve your boundary.

Because a man who genuinely respects you doesn't need to be told why maintaining close friendships with women who want him is a problem. He already knows. He already felt it. And he already made adjustments before you even had to bring it up — because your peace mattered more to him than any situationship he was casually maintaining on the side.

The ones who call you insecure for having these standards are usually the ones who need you not to have them. A secure man in a committed relationship isn't fighting for his right to stay close to his ex, entertain a girl who's openly waiting for her shot, or maintain friendships with women who disrespect his partner. That's not friendship. That's a backup plan with better lighting.

You're not controlling him by having boundaries. You're simply communicating what a relationship with you looks like. And any man who finds basic loyalty too much to ask is telling you everything about what he was planning to do anyway.

The right one won't make you feel crazy for knowing your worth.

He'll match it. 🤍👑

Momnah

@Momnnah19999

13 days ago

@Shobnom11
Miss lreply mee!
Its really important

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