Divorced Muslims
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17days then it's plan b. Alhamdulilah I have met and spoken to great women on this app, but sadly due to personal circumstances it wasn't meant to be.
Allah is the best of planners and insha'Allah see what happens and where the road takes me... For now it's just me, myself and moezza. Peace ✌️
People make a marriage profile and, in their very first message, say: “Let’s talk on WhatsApp, Instagram, or Snapchat because I’m not very active here.”
Come on, at least talk here first. Get to know each other, exchange introductions, and see if there’s even any compatibility. Why would someone just hand over their phone number or start following you on social media without knowing anything about you?
First, read the bio, share your own bio, introduce yourself, and ask some basic questions. If it seems like there’s potential and the conversation is going somewhere, then you can discuss moving to WhatsApp or elsewhere.
Otherwise, why would anyone give you their WhatsApp number or follow you on Instagram right away?
🌙 As-salamu Alaikum.
"The Word of your Lord has been perfected in truth and justice. None can change His Words. And He is the All-Hearing, All-Knowing." — Surah Al-An'am 6:115
No matter what challenges we face, Allah's promise remains true, His judgment is perfect, and His knowledge encompasses all things. Trust in Him, rely on Him, and find peace in His words. May Allah guide us, strengthen our faith, and fill our hearts with certainty and tranquility. Ameen. 🤲✨
Hello everyone!
I hope you are all doing well.
Although I have never been married, I decided to introduce myself here in the hope of finding a genuine connection. I am looking for a serious relationship that can lead to a happy and lasting marriage.
I believe that trust, respect, loyalty, good communication, and kindness are the foundation of a strong relationship. Life is much more beautiful when shared with the right person.
I am hoping to meet someone who is honest, caring, mature, and truly interested in building a future together. I am not looking for games or temporary relationships—only sincere intentions and a meaningful connection.
If you think we might be a good match, I would be happy to hear from you and get to know each other.
Wishing everyone the best of luck in finding happiness and love. ❤️
Some people liked my profile, but I can't see their profiles without a Gold membership.
Why should I pay when I'm not using any premium features?
One thing I've come to realize is that there is no such thing as a perfect person or a perfect marriage.
Life has a way of teaching us that lasting happiness is not built on perfection, but on sincerity, character, patience, and the willingness to grow together through every season of life.
After experiencing life's challenges, many people stop searching for the "perfect" spouse and start searching for peace. They realize that what truly matters is not who looks perfect when life is easy, but who remains kind, respectful, and supportive when life becomes difficult.
I'm not looking for perfection. I'm looking for compatibility, emotional maturity, shared values, good communication, and someone who genuinely wants to build a peaceful, faith-centered life together.
A successful marriage is not built by two perfect people. It is built by two sincere people who respect each other, communicate honestly, forgive often, support one another, and choose each other every day.
From an Islamic perspective, the strongest foundations of marriage are faith, character, and taqwa. Beauty, wealth, and status may change with time, but good character and a God-conscious heart continue to strengthen a marriage throughout life.
The question is no longer:
"Who can make me happy?"
The better question is:
"Who can I build a peaceful, meaningful, and faith-centered life with for the sake of Allah?"
Two imperfect people, with the right intentions and commitment, can create something truly beautiful.
Being divorced is not a bad thing. But being an unfaithful woman is very terrible. Which is the woman's own choice. Being divorced is acceptable. But being unfaithful is not acceptable at all.
The Conscious and Unconscious Male Divide (Fictional Conspiracy Narrative)
In this speculative narrative, human males are described as split into two categories of awareness: the unconscious and the conscious.
- The Unconscious Male and Fantasy-Driven Desire
The unconscious male is portrayed as operating primarily through fantasy, impulse, and desire. In this framing, his attention is easily captured by sexual imagery, imagination, and short-term gratification. He is said to live in reaction rather than reflection, guided more by instinct than intention, often unaware of how strongly his desires shape his behavior.
- Lower Primitive Nature and the “Reptilian Brain” Idea
This narrative connects the unconscious state to a primitive survival layer of the brain—often called the “reptilian brain” in popular myth. In this view, behavior is driven by basic urges: reproduction, dominance, and immediate satisfaction. Rational thinking is present but weakly applied, often overridden by impulse.
- Lack of Standards in the Unconscious State
Within this framing, unconscious men are described as having unstable or minimal internal standards. Their preferences shift based on stimulation and availability rather than long-term values. Commitment is seen as difficult not because of circumstance, but because desire is fragmented and constantly redirected.
- The Conscious Male and Respect for the Feminine
The conscious male is described as someone who has moved beyond impulse-driven behavior into awareness and discipline. In this narrative, he is capable of regulating desire and choosing intention over reaction. He is said to approach women with respect, emotional awareness, and recognition of individuality rather than objectification.
- Monogamy as a Marker of Conscious Integration
In this framework, monogamy is not simply a social norm but a signal of internal coherence. The conscious male is said to align desire, emotion, and action toward one partner, valuing depth and continuity over variety and stimulation. Commitment is framed as evidence of self-mastery rather than restriction.
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Narrative note:
In this theory, the divide is not just behavioral but moral and psychological: one side is seen as governed by impulse, the other by awareness and discipline.
If women across the world collectively decided to stop having kids, this world would cease to exist.
That's how powerful women are.
And yet somehow we've spent centuries being told we are the weaker ***. That we need to be controlled, guided, managed and kept in our place. That our voices matter less, our pain matters less, our choices matter less. All while quietly holding the single most irreplaceable biological power that has ever existed on this planet.
No boardroom. No government. No military. No empire in the history of humanity has ever functioned without first passing through the body of a woman. Every president, every king, every general, every man who ever declared himself powerful entered this world the exact same way — through a woman who chose to bring him here. And that choice? That has always been the most significant power in human history.
But power that serves the existing structure is celebrated. Power that challenges it makes people deeply uncomfortable. So instead of honoring the magnitude of what women carry they built systems to control it. Laws around our bodies. Shame around our choices. Religions that positioned our submission as virtue and our autonomy as sin.
They didn't suppress women because we were weak.
They suppressed us because they always knew exactly how strong we were.
Never forget what you're capable of. 👑