Psychology & Neurodiversity

Have you ever experienced the out-of-body thing??

𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙙𝙞𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩.

The audacity of some people!!!
People who post things like:
"Being offended cause an unattractive person liked them"
1-lacks basic brain cells: you being liked on a marriage app by people, is the whole point of the app, not something to be disgusted by!
2-if you read point 1 and said "no she/he didnt get disgusted by people liking her/him she/he got disgusted because ugly people liked her/him", well congratulations what she/he did worked on you, she/he "dehumanized" people base on a trait and you strated seeing them as less value.
3-shes/hes clearly signaling: non Islamic behavior, narcissistic tendencies, psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies.
4-she/he probably unsecure of her/his looks/value, so he is seeking validation from "high" value people.

Science just confirmed what you already felt:
Your brain processes social rejection through the same neural pathways as physical pain.
Being ghosted isn't just emotionally painful neurologically, it is physically painful.
And yet 84% of us have experienced it. Repeatedly. And came back for more.
We are not weak. We are just wired to keep seeking connection even when it costs us.
That's not desperation. That's the most human thing about you.

The most painful dating paradox nobody talks about:
The more you've been hurt the better you become at reading people.
And the better you become at reading people the harder it becomes to trust anyone.
Your past didn't make you damaged.
It made you perceptive. And that perception now feels like a curse.
Do you recognize yourself in this? 👇

Why does she ask, “Do you love me?”

Usually, it’s not because she doubts your love. For many women, hearing loving words provides reassurance and strengthens emotional connection.

Often, what she really means is:
“I feel close to you right now, stay in this moment with me.”

In Islam, expressing love and reassurance is encouraged. The Prophet ﷺ showed warmth and affection to his wives, teaching us that loving words are a form of mercy within marriage.

For husbands, this question is often an invitation to deepen connection, not a sign of insecurity.

It is said that if an old wound trigger, you don't act your age. You act the age You were hurt.

Someone once said, being me is a fun thing and I am very lucky, yes it is true I am grateful about what I get and what I have, but in this world that is full of fake, behind everything that looks happy and fun there are tears and pain in it, you know? many people say I am very lucky to be born in this family, sufficient finances and a family business that I can continue many people say that my future is guaranteed, but no one knows what really happened

✨and if today you don't shine, maybe God is preparing your best shine to shine more beautifully tomorrow.✨

understanding is an art, and not everyone is an artist❗