Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
Feel sad?
The Prophet said to his companions: Shall I not tell you some words which, if distress or grief befalls any of you and he offers this prayer, it will bring him joy?
It is the du‘a of Dhoo’l-Noon (i.e. Prophet Yunus):
لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين
There is no God but You, exalted are You; surely, I was one of the wrongdoers!
Source: Sahih al-Jami‘ (no. 2605)
Your profile will be judged within seconds and most profiles would fail instantly, in terms of psychology and behavior these are critical mistakes:
1-Photos: one image(most will assume you are insecure of who you are/overweight), un-clear, same angle(boring), performative(trying too hard/dating mentality/showing off), all photos with people(cant tell who are you), bathroom images(JUST NO), no eyes contact, all are selfie (if you are a man then this deadly).
2-Bio:empty, ".", "just ask", "if we match you will know", "if you are xxxx then skip", talking about things you hate in a partner, or saying no to this or that--> this behavior pushes everyone even those who are aligned with what you wrote, you should foucs on the things you search for, desirable qualities, and be postive.
3-Basic information is missing:no marriage timeline(not serious/doesnt know what he/she wants), no specific "religious level"(you dont know or isn't important enough), no interest, no direction of who you are, nothing.
Assalamualaikum to All the friends
How are you doing today..it's my first day on this app because I installed it a few hours ago so how is your experience to use this app continuously.I really want to know about the people here and you can suggest me that how can I preserve myself from scam if they really exist in this app.
Thanks you for attention
Have a good day...✨☺️
some people are statistically rare. not as an ego trip, just as a fact of distribution. and rare usually means eccentric, hyperfocused, misread. it means isolated.
the paradox is that recognizing you’re different isn’t ego, but nobody around you can tell the difference. so you either perform normalcy or get labeled arrogant for seeing yourself clearly.
if thinking you’re special is ego, then not thinking others are special is ego too. the comparison is the problem, not which end you land on. the “humble” person who walks around blind to other people’s depth isn’t humble- they’re just ego with better branding. and when you’re genuinely outside the norm, you don’t get to opt out of it. people run it on you constantly.
so the humble thing becomes pretending you aren’t what you are. and that’s its own kind of loss.
No matter how smart you are, somebody can still teach you something.
if u all break up and still can’t leave each other alone, what does that mean?😢
Watch your Thoughts
Because they will become your Words
Watch your words,
Because they will become your Actions
Watch your actions,
Because they will become your Behaviour
Watch your behaviour,
Because they will become your Habits
Watch your habits,
Because they will become your Character
Watch your character,
Because they will become you Destiny.
~by a monk
You have to be proud of yourself whatever happens .