Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
Women wanna judge men for the decisions they make in relationships,
But we as women don’t want to be judged for selecting that partner in the first place.
If you cannot self reflect then you cannot make true progress in your life.
Who you choose to be your partner is a reflection of your self esteem ,
your self respect or the lack there of.
It could reflect where you were at emotionally,
It could reflect you have some unhealed trauma
Whatever it is, it’s still a reflection of the choices you made
You are not being dragged into this relationships but you allowed it
So let’s get more honest as women and judge yourself
Be more reflective.
A neurodivergent person's ability to read the room Is exactly why we don't want to be in it.
William James quotes :"First, you know, a new theory is attacked as absurd; then it is admitted to be true, but obvious and insignificant; finally it is seen to be so important that its adversaries claim that they themselves discovered it."
...patterns.
ONE FOR ALL, ALL FOR ONE
I don't understand why women from site likes ti show off their s**ybody and enjoy consuming men eyes. Trying to trade within money and body. so, money is everything huh?! No need to keep your moral, value and intellectual behavior. However it's their choice, the silly is a man!!! a good man knows how to find a good woman, no doubt! 😁
Neurodivergent people can spot every pattern in existence except the pattern of someone flirting with them.
Why man are scared of educated women? I'm considering to hide my education 😂
I heard 3 times that it's not normal to woman to constantly study something and they don't feel comfortable with me study - even when I have no problem to combine that with home life which is going to be always on first place.
The psychology of why we attract the same person over and over again.
Change the face. Change the name. Change the city.
Same person. Every time.
And you stand there wondering "why does this keep happening to me?"
Here's the uncomfortable answer:
Your nervous system doesn't seek what's good for you. It seeks what's familiar to you.
If love in your childhood felt like walking on eggshells you will unconsciously find comfort in people who keep you slightly anxious. Not because you enjoy the pain. But because that anxiety feels like home.
If the people who were supposed to love you were emotionally unavailable you will spend your adult life trying to finally "unlock" emotionally unavailable partners. Trying to win the love you never got. Using the wrong people as a proxy.
This is called repetition compulsion. And it runs deeper than logic.
You can know someone is wrong for you. Feel it. See the signs clearly. And still stay because leaving feels more dangerous than the dysfunction you're already in.
The most brutal part?
The moment someone genuinely safe, stable, and loving shows up they feel boring. Suspicious even. Because your body doesn't recognize peace as love. It only recognizes the familiar chaos.
So you leave the good one. And go back to the pattern.
Not because you're broken. But because your template of love was written before you were old enough to edit it.
The only way out:
You have to consciously interrupt the pattern. Notice the pull. Sit with the discomfort of something healthy. Rewire what "love" feels like in your body not just your mind.
It's the hardest work a person can do.
But the people who do it?
They don't just find better partners.
They become a different person entirely.
What if Earth were facing its final days before a meteor impact that would wipe out most of humanity? What would you and your family do in those final moments? What hope would remain within you?