I am 46 - Relationships only works when both people r honest about what they want and what they r willing to give. Most women lead in depth spiritual connection, emotional support, honesty, solidarity - and yes ... intimacy. A man often leads with different priorities, he puts intimacy first. There is nothing wrong with different priorities - the wrong is taking without giving. I am willing to give love, loyalty and support - but only in a relationship where the giving is mutual . If u understand ur own needs, respect mine, and believe that a relationship is built by two not one.