أَلْهَاكُمُ التَّكَاثُرُ. حَتَّىٰ زُرْتُمُ الْمَقَابِرَ "The competition for more has distracted you, until you visit the graves." (Qur'an 102:1-2) (Avoiding casual or public banter or unnecessary engagement w men -limiting to purposeful communication only).