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What do you think destroys a marriage more often: financial problems or a lack of respect? 🤔
Good morning, my love ❤️🌹
As you begin this beautiful day, I pray that God surrounds you with His love, grants you peace, protects you wherever you go, and blesses all your efforts with success. May your heart be filled with joy, and may today bring you beautiful moments and endless reasons to smile.
Have a wonderful day, my love. I'm sending you all my love and prayers. 🙏❤️🥰
No distance 🌍, no challenge 💪, and no obstacle can ever change the love I have for you ❤️♾️. I will continue choosing you today, tomorrow, and every day after that 💞🌹. Thank you for being my happiness, my strength, my best friend, and the love of my life 😘❤️👑. I love you forever and always 💕🥺💍❤️. 💖✨🥰🌹💕♾️💞👑❤️
Hi, I am Mohamed from Egypt and living in Germany .
Looking for a serious relationship, want to meet someone who had similar beliefs and interests ❤️☺️
Plot twist: I actually posted something in account i just made few minutes ago. Lets see ..
Funny what a victim mentality these men crying about height and salary have.
Seriously talk about things that bother you without comparing it to what women face.
Cause you will never understand the invisible, tactical checklist for survival…we clutch keys between our knuckles in parking lots, wear muted headphones just to listen for trailing footsteps, check the child locks inside rideshares, and invent fictional boyfriends because a simple, firm "no" is rarely respected. It is a constant, low-humming state of vigilance where a simple walk home requires an exit strategy, and the anxiety never truly shuts off until you send that final, mandatory text to the group chat “I made it home safe."
A sister originally posted:
"We need to normalize the fact that there are Muslim couples who do not want to have children."
I can no longer find the original post, so to the sister who shared it -or anyone who agrees with her view - here is my response:
I understand that some Muslim couples may choose not to have children. No one should be forced into parenthood or shamed over deeply personal circumstances.
However, I struggle with the phrase "we need to normalize this."
In Islam, children are generally seen as a blessing, and building families is encouraged. The Prophet ﷺ encouraged marriage and growing the Ummah. While scholars have differed on whether choosing not to have children is sinful, having children has traditionally been viewed as virtuous and recommended.
So my question is: what problem are we trying to solve by normalizing a childfree lifestyle?
If a man wants to marry a woman who desires children, or a woman wants a husband who hopes to become a father - where is the injustice? People already have the right to choose spouses whose values align with their own.
Is the goal simply to reduce stigma for couples who make this choice, or is it to redefine the Muslim ideal of family life? Those are two very different conversations.
Looking at this from a moral standpoint:
A society survives because people accept responsibilities beyond their own comfort and preferences. Raising the next generation is one of those responsibilities. Choosing not to have children may be a private decision, but turning childlessness into a celebrated social norm inevitably changes how a community understands sacrifice, continuity, and the transmission of faith and values.