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With how difficult marriage has become today, I often find myself thinking about the story of Julaibib (RA).

The unknown sahabi

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Can i ask you one last simple question..

What was i to you?

(Jinns)
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🔒 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝘽𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙈𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙜𝙚 🔒

One of the greatest deceptions of shaytan is making haram feel harmless.

“It’s just a conversation.”
“It’s just social media.”
“It’s just a few messages.”
“It’s just looking.”

But the heart becomes attached to what it repeatedly consumes. Allah ﷻ did not prohibit haram to make life difficult.

He prohibited it to protect our hearts, our minds, our marriages, and our future. Sometimes people wonder why they struggle to appreciate the halal that Allah ﷻ has blessed them with.

Perhaps it is because the heart has become accustomed to chasing what was never meant for it.

𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗵 ﷻ 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀:
“𝗗𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗮.” (𝗤𝘂𝗿’𝗮𝗻 𝟭𝟳:𝟯𝟮)

Notice that Allah ﷻ did not only forbid the act itself. He also warned us against the paths that lead to it.

Every glance.
Every secret conversation.
Every emotional attachment outside the boundaries Allah has set.

These things shape the heart.

The more we feed our hearts with haram, the less they find peace in what Allah has made halal.

May Allah ﷻ purify our hearts, lower our gaze, protect our marriages, and make the halal beloved to us.

اللهم حبب إلينا الحلال واصرف عنا الحرام، وطهر قلوبنا وأبصارنا.

آمين. 🤍

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Anyone from mumbai here?

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What's wrong with "Muslim" men? They match, I greet them with السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته, boom gone, ghost!! We are afraid of the Islamic greeting?? We are indeed in the end times.

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Life is a stage, we are all actors.The more skillful the actor here, the happier he is.

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4 days ago

Assalamu alaikum,every one
Ladies be vigilant pls I think most of the men are here to have fun,if not why would a guy you meet in a mature app like this ask you to meet him first in his place is this right?

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A friend of mine asked me a question that can we even get married in this era when everything is available ready made at the shop and then whether it is milk or a girl I shouldn't say this but just sharing it with you because my friend gave an example like this that if milk is available at the shop what is the need to buy a cow just pay the money and bring the milk I felt so bad for his mindset

So I replied to him in the exact same language and way he asked the question I asked how old would you be he said around 20 I said if your father had thought the same way back then that when milk is available at the shop what is the need to buy a cow would you even be sitting in front of me today talking this nonsense

And then he says brother that era was different today's era is different I said if you go back 20 years the things you are talking about now were very common even in that era but your father considered marriage important instead of thinking like you that if milk is available at the shop what is the need to buy a cow

I told him listen brother marriage is a beautiful and halal relation it is not just about fulfilling temporary desires from a shop marriage is about respect peace companionship and building a blessed family which brings true peace to your soul you cannot buy a pure halal connection and a loyal life partner from any market temporary things destroy your character but a halal relationship builds your life and your future generation I am giving you guys this logic just to make you understand

#HalalRelationship #MarriageReflections #MindsetMatters

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Good women are not interesting while interesting women are not good.

Can we get a combination of both please...🤧

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Hello its sheryar here from islamabad looking a lady for marriage age should
MAx 25/26

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