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When you ask girls what kind of partner they are looking for their answers are usually Loyal, honest, caring, with a good job, and so on. 😂 So tell me, does only the guy have to be loyal? 😂 Does only the guy have to be honest? 😂 She does not have to be any of those things herself? 😂 Everything is expected from the man? 😂
Match with me if you think ‘let’s get married and build something together’ is a solid pickup line, not a red flag
When choosing a spouse, don't let wealth become your first priority.
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
If there comes to you one whose religion and character you are pleased with, then marry him.
This teaches us a timeless principle faith and character come before status, beauty, wealth, or social standing. Money can increase or disappear. Beauty fades. Status changes.
But a person with strong faith, good character, honesty, kindness, and the fear of Allah is far more likely to build a peaceful and lasting marriage.
Many marriages fail because people chose wealth over values. Choose someone who will help you get closer to Allah, treat you with respect, and stand by you through life's hardships.
Don't marry the richest person. Marry the one with the strongest deen and the best character. That is where real success and lasting peace are found.
Reference: Jamiʿ al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 1084 (also narrated in Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith 1967). The hadith was graded Hasan by many scholars.
Guys, this one’s mainly for you!
Ladies… you’ll thank me later 😂
Yalla bina!
As a professional matchmaker, I’ve spent years helping people find their person, organizing singles events and hearing the same feedback over and over again.
So if you’re on a dating or marriage app…
Your first photo is EVERYTHING.
Clear photo
No sunglasses
No group photos
No selfie
Dress smart, a suit never hurts.
And if you’ve got a well groomed beard… bonus pts, trust me 😏
Please… enough with the selfies
One or two? Fine.
Your whole profile? It’s giving… no social life 😂
Have at least 5 photos that actually tell a story
Don’t tell me you like football, travelling, the gym or hiking…
SHOW ME
People don’t fall for a list of hobbies, they connect with a story.
Write a bio that sounds like YOU
Please don’t just copy and paste AI
Please… it’s 2026
No Nokia 6600 quality photos 😭
Good lighting.
Good quality.
Recent photos (yes… recent, not 8 yrs ago 😒)
You got the match? Bravo!
Please don’t start with:
“Hi”
“How are you?”
“How was your day?”
Everyone sends that.
Also, PLS initiate the first contact
A great profile gets you the match.
Being genuine gets you the relationship.
Honourable mentions:
✔️ At least one smiling photo
✔️ At least one full body photo
✔️ Don’t lie about your height, age or name 🤦🏻♂️
و الله اعلم
Part 2: The first message that actually gets replies.
Isn’t there a filter for people who actually value their time? 😂
I want someone to talk with
Text me if ur interested.