All things marriage

1 mint of lust
1 mint of anger
Could destroy what took years to build

I don't understand why girls use 5- or 10-year-old pictures, or just 1 out of 1000 pictures that don't reflect their real self. This has happened to me twice.

After a week of conversation with one girl, I decided to have a video call. As soon as she picked up, she started saying without me even asking that she was tired, hadn't washed her face, and wasn't looking her best. When she noticed I was losing interest, she started saying that she would soon be getting her British nationality. Come on, this is a misconception. If a person is in Europe for study, they can attract someone on their own qualities, not because of a passport.

I am a 90s kid, and if I am still single, that means I am looking for someone with values and qualities, not shortcuts.

Then there was another girl. When I asked for a video call, she said, "We'll meet in person. I don't like video calls." When we finally met, she looked completely different from her pictures. As a Muslim, I respectfully took her for a meal, paid the bill, and then asked to leave because it was Friday and I had to go to the mosque.

I am not judging anyone based on beauty. I am simply asking people to stay honest and real on these sites. You're asking someone all kinds of personal questions while not being honest about yourself. That is just wasting other people's time.

If an Indian man earns Rs 10,000 per month and lives in a rented house, then how many women agree that they can marry a man earning Rs 10,000 and live a life with him?

अगर एक भारतीय आदमी महीने के 10,000 रूपये कमाता हे और किराए के मकान में रहता हे, तो कितनी औरतें इस बात से सहमत हे कि उन 10,000 रुपये कमाने वाले आदमी के साथ शादी की जा सकती हे, और ज़िंदगी गुज़ारी जा सकती हे,

You've a bunch of clueless charlatans on this app who don't have the faintest idea about communication.

Please, learn the first rule of communication. And that is, Listen to understand and if you don't comprehend, ask questions for clarification. Don't make assumptions. Assumption is a killer in communication. Ensure you understand what the other person is trying to tell you. When you do, then you can respond

A lot of you match up with rubbish, thinking you have found someone worthy, because you don't pay attention. Then you come here and start ranting. Learn the act of good communication. It will save you unnecessary stress.

I know you want to say...Thank you....

So, you are welcome.

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I have… 99 unread matches and one person who says “hey” after 3 days. 😂

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Gonna analyse some personalities with this one🧐

All families couple's must insist on Getting all mandatory medical & diagnostics tests are an absolute necessity, a must !

Genome, Diagnostic : Esp thalassemia, SCA CS - genetic screening, WGS - whole Genome sequencing, psy rhesus, mental well-being health analysis.

Epidimiology Radiology Fertility: And full body CT Scan, MRI Venogram or USG Doppler for scrotum vericocele / (female) PCS pelvic varicocele, DVT, and full STI's STD Tests, Fertility panel.

Full Vaccine schedule: And, All necessary vaccinations & preventive care etc, for both. Be it HPV 9, HSV, Pox Vericela, HepA & HepB, MMR, rabies antibodies, Cholera, Typhoid, J encephalitis, Pneumoccal PPSV 23 + PCV 13, Meningoccal, Tdap, annual Flu etc

It'll Hardly will us cost 5-7 Lakhs.

Then signing an NDA, privacy clause.

Yes all of this is ABSOLUTELY medically necessary, instead of expensive function Shadi walima wedding nikah expenses etc

(Personally, I'm not spending a single penny, on any of these weddings shadi functions. I can't satisfy and please others, over myself & our own..
Nor show off and burn waste our hard earned money, on these frivolous pomp n show, just to satisfy please others, feed an ego, create a fairy tale)

INSURANCE COVER:
All types of Insurance covers : FYI - most Sunni imam scholars have declared, it Halal & permissible. Also, Many muslim countries, have shariah complaint insurance covers.

Along with these medical diagnostic tests and definite must, is a full comprehensive Health insurance, Term life, critical illness, disability cover, vehicle and house insurance. Which will cost approx 1-2.5 Lakhs, per person.

Total would be 7-9 Lakhs. Max 10 Lakhs.
Btw, I got them all done. Yes, every single thing.

If these are not adhered to, I'm not marrying, come what may.

Can't risk future of a child & child's medical physical financial well-being over ego. And also our own medical health & wellbeing.

10 reasons dating apps like this stink bad:

1. Take away your innocence.
2. Turns nice humble folks into egomaniacs
3. Teaches you to see ppl as a checklist instead of a human being with a personality
4. Teaches you that deen is the last thing you ask about if at all
5. Constantly provides a new person to objectify
6. Steady source of hate, quarreling, cortisol
7. Convinces you that make believe is reality
8. Convinces you that reality isn’t as good as make believe
9. Convinces you that marriage before apps was outdated and impossible
10. Encourages you to stay on the fence and avoid risk.