All things marriage

Genuine question, how come it seems that when a disagreement or miscommunication happens we tend to end things without trying to resolve them? Not sure if its a lack of patience issue or what, but it seems easy to let go instead of make work.

15🔁PICKUP 🔃 LINES🔀..ok ok, Big Bro is here to help you all out..some of these are reposts from my previous pick-up line posts..1) Do you believe in love at first sight..or should I walk by you again? 2) I had this amazing dream last night ..and you were in it. 3) Are you a parking ticket?..because you have FINE written all over you. 4) Well, here I am! ..what are your other 2 wishes? 5) Would you mind giving me directions...to your heart? 6) You must be a magician..because when I look at you everything else disappears. 7) You're pretty, and I'm cute.. together we'd be pretty cute. 8) So..besides being good-looking, what else do you do on your free time? 9) Truth or date? 10) On a scale of 1 to 10, you're a 9 and I'm the 1 for you. 11) Roses are red, violets are blue..how did I get so lucky to match with you. 12) You don't know how many times I swiped left to find you. 13) I'd say bless you, but it looks like you already have been. 14) Are you into Star Wars, because Yoda only one for me. 15) Mom told me not to talk to strangers online, but I'll make an exception for you. ..🎱Ha...think that's enough for now

I survived all the snakes, but at last a butterfly killed me. The ones that look gentle and pretty in your eyes can destroy you the easiest. Be careful - you fight your enemies, but it's the ones who don't seem like enemies that break you.

Yesterday, someone asked how to spot a scammer, but the post was deleted 🥹

I didn't want my advice to go to waste, so I'm resharing it here to help others avoid their traps📝

Based on my experience, here is the scammer’s playbook:

1. The Private Shift: When they first get to know you, they immediately ask for your personal number to secure your undivided attention and love-bomb you on a private platform 📱

2. Vulnerability Fishing: They ask why you broke up with your last ex. If you hesitate, they quickly share their own breakup reasons to lower your guard and gain your trust

3. The Script Selection: This profiles your vulnerabilities so they can pick the right script from their library to play the perfect savior based on your past wounds (targeting victim with a history of abuse, a cheated ex, a narcissistic ex or a broken family etc).

4. Love-Bombing to the Max: They fast-track the relationship, rushing into marriage talks without actually knowing you.

5. Too Good to Be True: They look and sound flawless, but your instinct can feel the red flags. Always trust your gut feeling!❗️

6. The Wealth Flex: They constantly brag about a stable, high-paying job and apparent wealth, while subtly fishing for information about your own financial status 💰

7. Stolen Pictures: They hide behind a fake identity. Always do a reverse image search on any photos they send 📸👩‍💻🧑‍💻

8. Weird Chatting Hours: You will start noticing highly inconsistent or erratic chatting hours ⏰

9. Dodging Calls: They will flat-out refuse to pick up any voice calls or video calls ☎️📞

10. The Physical Avoidance & Isolation: They constantly refuse to meet up in person. They use the lone wolf sob story (claiming they are an only child or have no family and friends) so they can later claim you are the only one who can help them.

11. The Money Trap: The moment they ask for money, no matter how convincing the story is, do not give them a single cent. It is a boundary test. If you give in, they will keep demanding more. RUN and BLOCK them by all means! 🚩🚩🚩

Suggest a book that will crush my soul.

If you love travelling, let’s connect. ✈️🌍

Looks like no one’s getting married anytime soon anyway 😂

Let’s explore the world, make memories, and enjoy life. When Allah has written marriage for us, it’ll happen at the right time. 🤲

If you’re up for travelling, adventures, and good vibes, send me a message

Why would I go 50/50 with a man?
WHEN I'm going 100% by myself...
-Im self sufficient
-Im independent
-I pay my own bills

Can someone suggest me how to start conversation with any girl?

We spend so much time trying to be loved that we forget to ask ourselves one question:

When was the last time someone made you feel truly understood?

Not admired. Not wanted. Understood.

I'm curious... what does that feeling look like to you?

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