Divorced Muslims

📢 OFFICIAL RANT TIME 📢

Right guys, let’s get one thing straight first I KNOW this app is BOTH a dating app AND a society/divorce chat app! I get it! That’s fine! 🤣 But someone please explain to me… WHAT IS THE POINT OF HAVING A BIO SECTION IF ABSOLUTELY NO HUMAN BEING ACTUALLY READS IT?! 🤯

Do you all just log on, look at the profile picture, go “ooh nice” and immediately type a message? Is that it? Do the words underneath just vanish? Are they written in invisible ink?! Do you think I sat here typing out my whole life story just for fun, like a little essay challenge?! 📜🙄

I’ve written it plain as day: I’m 48, been married 19 years, I know exactly what I want and what I DON’T want. I’m here for a laugh, a chat, good people who get it AND if it’s dating, I want MEN MY OWN AGE! 🚩 Yet 90% of messages I get are lads young enough to be my son asking me out! 🤣😭 Bless you darlings, but I’m old enough to have owned a CD player when it was new! I’ve got socks older than you! Go find girls your own age, go enjoy your youth, leave us oldies to moan about ex-husbands and bills in peace! 😭💀

Have some basic decency and respect please — READ THE EFFING BIO BEFORE YOU REACH OUT! It’s not hard! It’s like 3 lines! If you message me asking something I’ve already said NO to, or you’re 12+ years younger… you’re getting blocked faster than I can make a cup of tea! 🫖✋

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk! 💅😂

Gym 💅🏻 done today

`Marriage is Sunnah. Dating is not.
If you’re also looking for Nikah with family involvement, you’re on the right profile.
Niyyat saaf, manzil Nikah Inshallah.

Dear Muzz, please connect me to divorced men and are serious for marriage within this year....

Hi how are you !

It's over

My name is Malik. I'm a 48-year-old Egyptian Muslim man, separated for four years, looking for a wife for a permanent marriage. I speak English and German, and I own a chicken farm. I'm 180 cm tall and weigh 80 kg; I'm very athletic.

Loving after 35 feels very different than it did in your twenties.

Back then, relationships often started with excitement. Everything was new. You were still discovering who you were, what you wanted, what kind of life you were building. It was easier to follow intensity and call it love.
But time changes the way you approach connection.

By your mid-thirties you've usually been through enough experiences to see things more clearly. You've seen relationships that worked for a while and then didn't. You've learned what you can give, and what you can't. What you tolerate, and what you no longer will.

You don't fall in love the same way anymore.

Not because you feel less. In many ways you feel more now but with more awareness.
You notice character more than charm. Consistency more than chemistry. Emotional maturity more than excitement.
You also carry more of yourself into the relationship.

Your habits, your peace, your independence, the life you've built on your own.
So loving again after 35 isn't about finding someone to start life with.

It's about finding someone who knows how to walk into a life that already exists - and treat it with care.

Divorce in today’s society is becoming more common, but behind every separation there is usually a long story of misunderstandings, unmet expectations, lack of communication, financial stress, or emotional disconnect.

Sometimes two good people simply fail to understand each other, and sometimes red flags are ignored at the beginning of the relationship in the name of love.

But the truth is: marriage doesn’t break suddenly—it breaks slowly, when respect, honesty, and patience start to fade.

To protect yourself from such situations, never rush into commitment. Take time to truly understand the person, their mindset, family values, and how they handle conflict. Always prioritize communication, boundaries, and emotional maturity over attraction alone.

And most importantly, remember—love is not just about finding the right person, it is also about becoming the right partner.

A strong relationship is built before marriage, not after it. 💔➡️❤️