Divorced Muslims
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One thing these marriage apps have taught me is that self-awareness is far more important than age.
Recently, I spoke to a 38-year-old divorced man who told me he wasn't sure if he wanted marriage.
And honestly, that's completely okay.
Not everyone wants marriage. Not everyone is ready for marriage. Not everyone has healed from their past experiences enough to make that decision again.
What surprised me wasn't his uncertainty. It was the fact that he was on a marriage app while being uncertain about marriage.
I think we underestimate how much time and emotional energy we consume from other people when we haven't first been honest with ourselves.
Self-awareness is knowing what you want, what you don't want, and what you're genuinely ready for.
Sometimes the most mature thing a person can do is step away from the search for a partner and spend some time understanding themselves first.
Because another relationship is not always the answer. Sometimes clarity is.
The older I get, the more I realise that age, education, income, and even past relationship experience do not automatically create self-awareness.
That work has to be done intentionally.
And the people who have done that work stand out immediately.
In today’s world, finding a loyal person on social media is a very difficult task.
Divorce is not the end of your story. Sometimes Allah closes one door to open another that is better for your dunya and akhirah. Be patient, guard your prayers, and trust His wisdom. What is written for you will reach you at the right time. Heal, grow, and keep your heart attached to Allah, for He is the Best of Planners.
I like ..here real person,in the world so many fake people's..but I believe..#I can found ..my future husband @@@@@true love with..
As salaamu alaikum is very easy to say. But do you mean it?
I am Software professional with good salary and strong Islamic background. Last year , I got into a arrange marriage due to my family pressure and ended up breaking in a month , as the women had strong western culture.
It took a year to digest and grow from that state to my current state. Thankfully Allah gave the strength in overcoming the struggles.
Hopefully looking for a partner who values and loves me not for my job , not for my money, just for me !!
