Muslims in New Zealand

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Salam All
Looking to meet people in New Zealand.

🇲🇾 𝙈𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙮𝙨𝙞𝙖𝙣 🇳🇿 𝙄𝙣 𝙉𝙚𝙬 𝙕𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙙 🇳🇿
🤲🏻 𝙎𝙚𝙚𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙚𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙡 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙜𝙚, 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝. ✨

Is there anyone who is searching for Bangladeshi man for marriage?

I believe the right partner is someone who makes you a better version of yourself and supports you every step of the way.

I finally understand that when someone doesn’t want you anymore, they will hurt you until you leave 😭💔

Let’s delete this app together….!!!!

It’s just maybe only dream

1/ A warning for women using Muzz, Salams, Bumble, or other dating apps in New Zealand.

Please be cautious if you come across a man named Ahmad who is based in Christchurch, although his dating profile may list Auckland. He is in his mid-thirties, works in nursing and education, recently completed a PhD, and describes himself as Kiwi-Palestinian who grew up in Jordan.

His account is currently active again.

2/ He may initially present himself as religious, mature, educated, emotionally intelligent, and serious about marriage.

That was also the impression he gave me when we first started speaking. Unfortunately, my experience with him later became very different from the image he showed at the beginning.

3/ I spoke to him for around six weeks.

During that time, he repeatedly invited me to travel around New Zealand with him and stay overnight in his campervan. As a Muslim woman who wears hijab, I clearly told him that I was not comfortable sharing accommodation and would book a hotel or backpacker hostel instead.

4/ Rather than simply respecting my decision, he repeatedly tried to make me feel guilty.

He framed my choice as “choosing strangers over him” and complained that there was no point showing me the stars from the campervan if I refused to stay there with him.

A clear boundary should not require endless negotiation.

5/ At the same time, he regularly questioned my friendships and accused me of not having appropriate boundaries with both male and female friends.

Later, I discovered that he had also been communicating with other women during the same period he was speaking to me.

6/ I recently spoke to a woman he had been in contact with since last year.

That was when I realised he had still been communicating with her while he was also talking to me. I have also spoken with other women who described similar experiences connected to him over several years and across different dating apps.

7/ Another repeated pattern I experienced was the denial of previous conversations.

Things he had clearly said would later be denied, changed, or reframed. It left me confused and questioning whether I had remembered the conversations correctly.

8/ I am not qualified to make any clinical diagnosis.

I can only describe what I personally experienced: pressure, guilt-tripping, double standards, repeated denial, inconsistency, and behaviour that caused significant emotional harm.

9/ His dating account is now active again.

I do not know who he is currently speaking to, but I am concerned that the same pattern may be repeated with another woman. This post is not an invitation to contact, threaten, or harass anyone. It is a warning for women to stay cautious and make informed decisions.

10/ Please pay attention when someone pressures your boundaries, expects rules from you that they do not follow themselves, tries to create distance between you and your support system, or repeatedly makes you question your own memory.

Being religious, educated, respected, or professionally successful does not automatically make someone emotionally safe.

11/ I have documented more of my own experience on Instagram at @caramel.matcha.latte21.

You do not need to follow the account. The posts are there for awareness, so women can read the information and decide for themselves.

Please stay careful and stay safe.

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