Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
People often fall into a “victim mindset,” where everything feels like an injustice and responsibility is avoided.
While pain can be real and valid, staying in this mindset blocks growth and keeps us stuck. Instead of only asking “Why is this happening to me?”, we should also ask “What can I learn from this?” and “Where can I improve?”
Islam encourages reflection and accountability, accepting hardship while also correcting ourselves and growing through it. Not all suffering is injustice; sometimes it is a means of purification and growth.
True strength is not in always being right, but in taking responsibility, learning, and becoming better.
My phone tells me: Storage Full. I tell it: Brother, my brain is like that too!😅🙆
What is it that makes you go for a person to marry... I m coming to realise the health also matters. Age could be just a no. Indeed Allah knows Best.
I always pray in my prayers, "O Allah, I never show my sadness and envy to my siblings, maybe my mother prefers my siblings, it's okay, O Allah, I am sincere and forgive all the pain that I have experienced, even though this injustice is always present in my life, I am sincere, but please make my path to success easier, make me lucky in my career and education, or if not, give me luck with the family that I will build, have a loyal husband who is happy and understands me, and two good children…
NEVER understood how do men show their wives on social media, a man with gheerah(protective jealousy) will never actually let any other men see his wife's photos or videos 📸
Bismillah
Hope This helps those in need
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Have you ever been with an insecure guy?
The kind who says things like, “Please don’t lose weight,” or “I like that you look like an aunty.”
As if keeping you from looking your best somehow makes them feel more secure.
They wanted you to stay the same. Once you changed, they walked away.
If someone is ignoring you, use their own mind against them🧠
Are you being ghosted?
Stop chasing.
Stop begging.
Try this psychological trick instead. 🛑
✔When someone goes silent, send them this exact message:
"I just remembered something interesting about us"
Then, walk away.
Leave them on read for at least five hours.
Do not explain.
Do not double-text.
Just go silent.
✔Curiosity is a psychological weapon. Their brain won't stop wondering what you meant.
Their mind will start racing.
They will text you back. They might even call.
✔But here is the real secret:
Do not reply yet.
Let that curiosity grow. Let them think about you even harder.
✔After five hours, send this:
"Sorry, got a bit busy. Almost forgot what I wanted to say"
Just like that the power dynamic flips.
They were ignoring you before.
Now they’re chasing your attention.
You didn't chase.
You used psychology to make them chase you.
