Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
There’s a strange kind of emptiness that can appear after you’ve done a lot of inner work. You start feeling lighter, clearer, and more at peace, but sometimes you also feel a quiet sense of loss. Not because you want to go back, but because the version of you that was constantly surviving, overthinking, or performing had become familiar. Healing can feel like losing a part of your old identity, even when the new one is healthier.
Do you believe in love in this era?
Have you ever experienced the out-of-body thing??
𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙙𝙞𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩.
The audacity of some people!!!
People who post things like:
"Being offended cause an unattractive person liked them"
1-lacks basic brain cells: you being liked on a marriage app by people, is the whole point of the app, not something to be disgusted by!
2-if you read point 1 and said "no she/he didnt get disgusted by people liking her/him she/he got disgusted because ugly people liked her/him", well congratulations what she/he did worked on you, she/he "dehumanized" people base on a trait and you strated seeing them as less value.
3-shes/hes clearly signaling: non Islamic behavior, narcissistic tendencies, psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies.
4-she/he probably unsecure of her/his looks/value, so he is seeking validation from "high" value people.
Science just confirmed what you already felt:
Your brain processes social rejection through the same neural pathways as physical pain.
Being ghosted isn't just emotionally painful neurologically, it is physically painful.
And yet 84% of us have experienced it. Repeatedly. And came back for more.
We are not weak. We are just wired to keep seeking connection even when it costs us.
That's not desperation. That's the most human thing about you.
The most painful dating paradox nobody talks about:
The more you've been hurt the better you become at reading people.
And the better you become at reading people the harder it becomes to trust anyone.
Your past didn't make you damaged.
It made you perceptive. And that perception now feels like a curse.
Do you recognize yourself in this? 👇
