All things marriage

@shaz
@muzz

I paid for gold, how comes it’s asking me to buy more likes now? Is this a glitch as paying almost £100 for 3months surely should cover swiping costs lol

Be super super real… why do you really want to get married? Before you answer, you can’t say anything about what marriage would do for you in any light of selfish reasons.

Yallah give me your realest answers

Im new here, looking for something real and genuine single will love to meet a serious woman

This is the type of mentality Muslim men should stay away from

Sometimes when I come across a really good profile, I'm brave enough as a woman to send a compliment. But these men can't be bothered to dismiss the compliment if they're not interested. They leave you on seen/read. I dont mind being rejected - but to be left on seen is so incredibly disrespectful to me. All you have to do is click a giant X. You can leave feedback as to why you're not interested or you don't have to. But noooo they leave you in a limbo or add you to their collection hoping that someone better may come along 🙄

I need halal relationship
I'm disable person
22 year old
I need out of country caring richest wife
I'm caring partner

Did you ever ask yourself why many women are attracted to doctors, engineers, business owners, or lawyers (especially in Western countries)?

You probably think it's because of the money, right?

Yes, some are attracted to the money itself. But if you think more deeply, a long time ago women would wait until the men finished fighting, then choose the one who won. You might say, "But that was a long time ago." No—it's essentially the same principle.

Back then, there was no money, only stronger men and weaker men. Since women are generally more physically vulnerable, they tended to choose the stronger one. In the past, men needed physical strength to survive. Today, education, status, and financial success play a similar role to physical strength in earlier societies.

That is also why, in many Western countries, physical attractiveness has become another important factor. Why? Because, according to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, once people's basic needs are satisfied, they begin to seek higher-level desires, including enjoyment and personal fulfillment.

You'll rarely hear someone say, "I choose a job because I enjoy it," until they already have their basic needs—such as food, water, shelter, and intimacy—reasonably secured.

So the question is: if the status, money, and education disappear, will that woman stay?

The answer depends. If she is chasing the money itself, she will most likely leave.

But if she is attracted to your ability, she is more likely to stay, because status, money, and education are evidence of your ability. She isn't necessarily pursuing those things themselves; she is pursuing what they represent—the ability to achieve them. If you have achieved them once, there is a good chance you can achieve them again. The underlying reasoning is the same.

But one question remains: what if she is only attracted to the appearance or aura of ability, and you may not actually have that ability in the future?

That's a valid question. In that case, choose a woman who knows how to live through both wealth and hardship. She adapts quickly, knows how to make the best of difficult situations, is content with what she has, and remains grateful.

Wallahu a'lam. 😊

A believing wife is a source of peace for her husband through her faith, patience, kindness, and loyalty.💯🌟✅🔑