All things marriage

If we are the one always putting effort and other person isn't that curious i had to tell my name myself they didn't bothered to ask what does that makes me a creep?

That person is playing like a toy👀
taking my heart in his hands😥
꧁✨❤️阿布拉尔❤️✨꧂:_

Ask Allah Rahman for one thing on this post..

Hey friends , whats one thing that you found as a red flag in the talking stage and it made you think " hmm nah its not the one " ?

Just work out..

Hey everyone i wanna know new ppl here

"Love is not about finding the perfect person, but seeing an imperfect person perfectly."

"الحب ليس أن تجد شخصًا كاملًا، بل أن ترى شخصًا غير كامل بطريقة كاملة."

I saw a shameful post earlier in this group which spoke poorly on “divorced” women by another Muslim brother, who also further insultingly categorised and targeted an specific audience of women by adding “the age of 30+” and to my memory adding another comment in a belittling nature about such women also having children already.

Im not going to @ him out of respect and also in the hope he sees this post himself and causes some deep self reflection. But this is a post for all men, and women I guess.

Brothers. Ponder over the following.

Who was the Prophets SAW - FIRST wife?
Was she younger or older than him?
How many husbands before the Prophet SAW did she have?
How many children did she have before marrying the prophet SAW?

👇🏻‼️ Okay… now time for some education and new learning ‼️👇🏻

Please read the following Hadith narrated by a young companion, Jabir ibn Abdullah, reported in Sahih al-Bukhari:

The Messenger of Allah asked me, “Have you married, O Jabir?” I said, “Yes.” He asked, “A virgin or a previously married woman?” I replied, “A previously married woman.” He said, “Why not a virgin, so that you could play with her and she with you?”
Jabir said, “My father died and left daughters, and I disliked bringing someone their own age, so I married a woman who could take care of them and look after them.” The Prophet then said, “May Allah bless you,” or “That is good.”

🤔 Yet, disappointingly…. there are men upon us who pridefully look down on such women who perhaps have had children and “failed” marriages (which too add… may not be down to any fault of the women, perhaps a Muslim brother simply didn’t respect her or was abusive etc.)

Brothers who do such a thing. WHO ARE YOU, TO JUDGE?

Of course brothers, we’re all entitled too our preferences as are the women. But do not look down upon the other *** in any regard, nor make such comments like the brother whose identity I will conceal had done so earlier.

May Allah forgive us all for our sins and our short comings.

Last of all. Ask yourself. Do you know your own future and circumstances you will face with marriage and children? Will you not face a divorce?

Only Allah SWT knows. You do not know.
So respect others. ‼️

Do i need to rush as woman in age 28 ?