All things marriage

AI/ML &GenAI Developer here...

Looking for a 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧❤ who can:

• Emotionally Intelligent. And won't judge me for talking nicely to 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙂𝙋𝙏 before asking help.
• Can survive my relationship with 𝙂𝙋𝙐s. It's strictly professional.
• Won't panic when I say, "𝙈𝙤𝙙𝙚𝙡 is acting weird again. " (I'm talking about AI.. Probably)
• Won't get jealous of 𝙑.𝙎. 𝘾𝙤𝙙𝙚. If talks more to that.
• Understands that "𝘼𝙄 will replace anyone. " doesn't include her.
• Knows that my only successful matchmaking so far has been matching 𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 after her.
• Believes in me even when my 𝙖𝙡𝙜𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙢 doesn't.
• Knows that 𝙋𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙣 is my code language not the love language.
• When I say " One last run" is my 𝙂𝙚𝙣𝘼𝙄 version to tell "I'll be home soon. "

𝙎𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙮: Unlimited happiness and lifetime memories. And free tech knowledges without having any technical degree.

𝙍𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙢𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝘿𝙈 𝙣𝙤 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙞𝙡.

Today’s Du’a

Alhamdullilah
for being woken up by Allah. Alhamdulillah for the family that we are still with this morning, for the rising sun, for the food that we eat, for the things that are useful to us every day. Alhamdulillah for the love and mercy that Allah gives us, and for His forgiveness and mercy. Alhamdulillah for the strength that Allah grants us to go on about our day.
Ameen Ya’Rabil’Alameen

How many years have you been chasing love?

<CUSTOM_BOLD>Question:</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> What is the Quran’s ruling regarding Mahr (dowry)?
</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Answer:</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> There is no fixed limit on the amount of Mahr. There is no minimum, as the Prophet (peace be upon him) once told a man who wished to marry:
«التمس ولو خاتما من حديد»
[صحيح البخاري، رقم الحديث 4842]
"Look for something, even if it is a ring of iron."
Furthermore, there is no maximum limit, as stated in the Quran:
«وَإِنْ أَرَدْتُمُ اسْتِبْدَالَ زَوْجٍ مَكَانَ زَوْجٍ وَآتَيْتُمْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ قِنْطَارًا فَلَا تَأْخُذُوا مِنْهُ شَيْئًا أَتَأْخُذُونَهُ بُهْتَانًا وَإِثْمًا مُبِينًا» [4-النساء: 20]
"But if you intend to replace one wife with another and you have given one of them a great amount [in gifts], do not take [back] from it anything. Would you take it in injustice and manifest sin?"
Our evidence and testimony lie in this part of the verse:
«وَآتَيْتُمْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ قِنْطَارًا» [4-النساء: 20]
"And you have given one of them a great amount [literally: a </CUSTOM_BOLD>Qintar<CUSTOM_BOLD> or a treasure/hoard]."
However, the greed and avarice of the pre-Islamic era (Jahiliyyah) still persist among some Muslims today. Therefore, it is a duty upon a man to give his daughter in marriage to someone who can provide a portion of his wealth to her as Mahr. If a man possesses nothing to give, Allah does not hold a person responsible beyond their capacity. I would not say, "Give from your wealth when you own nothing," but you will be dealt with kindly within the limits of your financial ability. And Allah is the One whose help is sought.
— </CUSTOM_BOLD>Muqbil bin Hadi al-Wadi'i (may Allah have mercy on him)

Would you marry someone who was famous on social media if their content wasn’t haram? Why or why not?

It's difficult to find a truly sincere life partner. You send her a message saying you want a relationship, and then she leaves you. Honestly, it's hard, even though I'm sincere and serious about wanting one.

DO NOT reach if you're not serious about marriage 🙂

<CUSTOM_BOLD>Question:</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> What is the stance of Islam regarding extravagance in Mahr (dowry)?
</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>Answer:</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD> Sharia encourages marriage and dictates that it should be kept simple and affordable. It strictly discourages excessive spending on Mahr and the hosting of extravagant wedding feasts (Walima). This is a well-known and established issue; scholars have consistently addressed it in their writings and books, and have frequently spoken about it in their sermons from the pulpit.
— </CUSTOM_BOLD>Abdullah bin Abdurrahman Al-Jibreen (may Allah protect him)

Currently my situation,
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On holiday in Norway for the 5th time.. and I’ve only just realised how beautiful it is. Any one else in Norway? Any good recommendation?
I’m from Uk btw lol

Have a blessed day yall 🤲🏽 😇