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A verse to reflect on:
"O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good." (Surah An-Nisa 4:19)
Hello everyone .i wish all the best for all in your incoming years
A reminder for everyone.
There is a kind of peace that only comes from truly trusting Allah's plan.
It is not about giving up or stopping effort. It is doing everything within your ability, with sincerity, and then releasing the outcome because you know it is in hands far greater than your own.
Allah says in the Quran "And whoever puts his trust in Allah, He will suffice him." (65:3)
Suffice. Not maybe help. Not partially. He will suffice him.
Sometimes the things we are most afraid of losing were never meant to be ours. And sometimes the things we never saw coming were exactly what we needed.
You do not have to understand the plan to trust the One who made it. He sees what you cannot. He knows the ending while you are still living the chapter.
Do your part. Make dua. And trust in Allah's plan.
Recently I have been reflecting on something that genuinely concerns me and after observing human behavior for many years I think it is time to speak about it openlyمؤخرا كنت أفكر في أمر يقلقني حقا وبعد سنوات من مراقبة السلوك البشري أعتقد أن الوقت قد حان للحديث عنه بصراحةNot everyone on matrimonial platforms is searching for marriage Some are searching for attention Some are searching for validation Some are searching for financial gain Some are searching for emotional entertainment Some are searching for physical desires hidden behind respectable words And some knowingly present false information while fully aware of what they are doingليس كل من يدخل تطبيقات الزواج يبحث عن الزواج فعلا البعض يبحث عن الاهتمام والبعض يبحث عن الإعجاب والبعض يبحث عن مكاسب مادية والبعض يبحث عن تسلية عاطفية والبعض يخفي رغباته الحقيقية خلف كلمات جميلة والبعض يقدم معلومات غير صحيحة وهو يعلم ذلك تماماA false age A false story A borrowed image A carefully edited version of realityعمر غير حقيقي قصة غير حقيقية صورة ليست له أو لها ونسخة مصنوعة بعناية من واقع لا وجود لهWhat saddens me is not that such people exist They have always existed What saddens me is how many sincere people become victims because they assume everyone arrived with the same pure intention they didما يحزنني ليس وجود هؤلاء فقد كانوا موجودين دائما ولكن ما يحزنني هو عدد الأشخاص الصادقين الذين يقعون ضحايا لأنهم يظنون أن الجميع جاء بنفس النية الصادقة التي جاءوا بهاThey came looking for a husband or wife while someone else came looking for an audience They came looking for commitment while someone else came looking for temporary excitement They came looking for sincerity while someone else came looking for opportunityجاؤوا يبحثون عن زوج أو زوجة بينما جاء غيرهم يبحث عن جمهور جاؤوا يبحثون عن التزام بينما جاء غيرهم يبحث عن متعة مؤقتة جاؤوا يبحثون عن الصدق بينما جاء غيرهم يبحث عن فرصة يستغلهاThe irony is that many of these people speak constantly about trust while destroying trust They speak about honesty while hiding the truth They speak about marriage while avoiding every path that leads to itوالمفارقة أن بعض هؤلاء يتحدثون كثيرا عن الثقة وهم أول من يهدمها ويتحدثون عن الصدق وهم يخفون الحقيقة ويتحدثون عن الزواج وهم يهربون من كل طريق يقود إليهAnd this is where we all have a responsibility The application will not clean itself Good people cannot remain silent forever If someone is clearly deceiving others Report them If someone is manipulating hearts Report them If someone is using false information Report them Not because of revenge but because protecting others from harm is part of good character and sincere adviceوهنا تقع المسؤولية على الجميع فالتطبيق لن ينظف نفسه بنفسه ولا ينبغي لأهل الخير أن يظلوا صامتين إذا كان هناك من يخدع الناس أو يتلاعب بمشاعرهم أو يستخدم معلومات مزيفة فقم بالإبلاغ عنه ليس انتقاما ولكن حماية للآخرين ونصحا للهDo not stay silent because one day it may be your sister your brother your daughter your son or someone you love sitting on the other side of that screen hoping they are speaking to a sincere personلا تصمت لأن الجالس خلف الشاشة في يوم من الأيام قد يكون أختك أو أخاك أو ابنتك أو ابنك أو شخصا تحبه ويأمل أنه يتحدث إلى إنسان صادق
I am not claiming perfection for myself But I have seen these patterns before and studied them years ago and I learned something important If you want the right result you must knock on the right doorأنا لا أدعي الكمال لنفسي ولكنني رأيت هذه الأنماط من قبل ودرستها منذ سنوات وتعلمت درسا مهما إذا كنت تريد النتيجة الصحيحة فعليك أن تطرق الباب الصحيحIf you want marriage seek marriage If you want friendship seek friendship If you want something else be honest about it But do not enter a place built for marriage carrying intentions that belong somewhere elseإذا كنت تريد الزواج فابحث عن الزواج وإذا كنت تريد الصداقة فابحث عن الصداقة وإذا كنت تريد شيئا آخر فكن صادقا بشأنه ولكن لا تدخل مكانا بني للزواج وأنت تحمل نوايا لا علاقة لها بهTo the sincere brothers and sisters Do not let these people change you Do not allow dishonesty to make you dishonest Do not allow manipulation to make you cynical Do not allow poor character to steal your akhlaq Remain truthful Remain sincere Remain respectful Even if a hundred people disappoint you Even if a thousand conversations lead nowhere Remain who you areإلى الإخوة والأخوات الصادقين لا تسمحوا لهؤلاء أن يغيروكم لا تجعلوا الكذب يدفعكم للكذب ولا التلاعب يدفعكم للقسوة ولا سوء الأخلاق يسرق أخلاقكم ابقوا كما أنتم صادقين مخلصين محترمين حتى لو خذلكم مئة شخص وحتى لو انتهى ألف حوار بلا نتيجةBecause your character is a reflection of your relationship with Allah not a reaction to the behavior of othersلأن أخلاقكم انعكاس لعلاقتكم بالله وليست مجرد رد فعل على تصرفات الآخرينAllah says in the Quran
وقال الله تعالى في كتابه الكريم
﴿ يَوْمَ تَشْهَدُ عَلَيْهِمْ أَلْسِنَتُهُمْ وَأَيْدِيهِمْ وَأَرْجُلُهُمْ بِمَا كَانُوا يَعْمَلُونَ ﴾
“On the Day when their tongues their hands and their feet will bear witness against them as to what they used to do”سورة النور الآية 24Fear the day when hidden intentions become visible and every word and every action stands as a witnessفاتقوا يوما تنكشف فيه النوايا وتصبح فيه الكلمات والأفعال شهودا على أصحابهاYet despite everything I still have hope Because sincerity still exists Beautiful character still exists Honest men still exist Honest women still exist And no amount of deception can extinguish the light of truth Every lie has an expiry date Every mask eventually falls Every hidden intention will one day be revealed But sincerity has a light of its own and Allah never allows that light to be lost Perhaps today you feel disappointed Perhaps you feel tired of searching Perhaps you wonder whether genuine people still exist They do exist and perhaps they are searching for the same thing you are searching for right now So do not let darkness convince you that light has disappeared Keep your heart clean Keep your intentions pure Keep your trust in Allah strong For what is written for you will never miss you and what misses you was never meant for you The doors that closed may have protected you The people who left may have saved you from a greater hurt And the delays you dislike today may become the reasons you thank Allah tomorrow One sincere person can change the direction of your life and Allah is fully capable of bringing that person to you at the perfect timeومع ذلك فما زال عندي أمل لأن الصدق ما زال موجودا والأخلاق الجميلة ما زالت موجودة والرجال الصادقون ما زالوا موجودين والنساء الصادقات ما زلن موجودات ولن يطفئ نور الحق أي قدر من الخداع فلكل كذب نهاية ولكل قناع لحظة سقوط ولكل نية خفية يوم تنكشف فيه ولكن الصدق له نور لا يضيع عند الله أبدا وربما تشعر اليوم بالتعب أو الإحباط أو تتساءل إن كان ما زال هناك أناس صادقون نعم ما زالوا موجودين وربما يبحثون عن الشيء نفسه الذي تبحث عنه أنت الآن فلا تجعل ظلمة بعض التجارب تقنعك أن النور اختفى حافظ على نقاء قلبك وصفاء نيتك وثقتك بالله فما كتب لك سيأتيك وما لم يكتب لك فلن يكون لك أبدا وربما كانت الأبواب المغلقة حماية لك وربما كان رحيل بعض الناس رحمة من الله بك وربما يصبح ما أزعجك اليوم سببا في أن تحمد الله عليه غدا فشخص صادق واحد قد يغير حياتك كلها والله قادر أن يرسله إليك في الوقت الذي كتبه لك اللهم ارزقنا الصدق في النية والقول والعمل وطهر قلوبنا من الرياء والخداع وسوء المقاصد واحفظ أبناءنا وبناتنا وإخواننا وأخواتنا من أهل التلاعب والخداع واجعلنا مفاتيح للخير مغاليق للشر وثبتنا على حسن الخلق والحق حتى نلقاك
Ameen | Allah Knows Best | والله أعلم
Hi, I hope you are doing well. I saw your profile and I liked your simplicity. I am a serious person and I am looking for a respectful and honest relationship that leads to marriage. If you are also looking for something serious, we can talk and know each other better.
I think one of the hardest tests from Allah is the delay of marriage…With financial problems, you can work harder and try different solutions. But with marriage, sometimes you’ve done all you can, and all that’s left is to wait without knowing until when 😂. All you can do is make du’a and trust Allah’s timing.
A woman looks for two things in a Husband: the peace of a father and the understanding of a best friend 🤍🕊️
Salam how are you my Muslim friends ? I hope you all are doing good or suffering some difficulties I hope may God solve your situations in silence and may he listen your all worries and accept your whole prayers