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Once read a comment that said:
“I was married to a student of Islamic knowledge, yet he constantly reminded me of my illness and made me feel like a burden. That experience taught me one lesson: never be deceived by titles, appearances, or reputation. Look at a person's character, for that is what you will live with every day.”
You do not need more than a sensible husband with good character, who establishes the five daily prayers, earns from halal sources, and has a connection with the Qur'an and worship.
Remove from your list the conditions that social media has filled your mind with.
There are homes filled with oppression, abuse, and misery despite an abundance of beards, Islamic texts, certificates, and titles. And there are homes filled with mercy, tranquillity, and kindness among ordinary Muslims who may never have studied advanced Islamic sciences, yet understand what it means to fear Allah and treat others well.
A person's books, certificates, and reputation *do not guarantee a successful marriage if they do not act upon what they know. So look first at their character, manners, and religion before looking at their memorization, status, or popularity.
The title of “Shaykh” will not lessen the pain of oppression. Knowledge alone will not benefit others if it is not accompanied by good character. A long beard will not show mercy if the heart is harsh and the tongue is hurtful.
Shaykh Ibn ʿUthaymīn رحمه الله said:
If the seeker of knowledge does not display virtuous character and good manners, then his pursuit of knowledge is futile.
[شرح حلية طالب العلم، للشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين رحمه الله | ص ٨]
A man is not measured by what he knows, but by how he lives. And the real test of a person's religion is often found in the way they treat those under their care when no one is watching.
Anyone can speak about good character. The real test is living by it.
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Everyone contacts me… but nobody reads my bio 🤷🏽♀️✨
Read my bloody Bio people for the million times 😂
A.o.A, Dear hope you are well.
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I am from Punjab living in Abu Dhabi, UAE
A single, widow, divorced seeking marriage from the UAE, Punjab, Pakistan (age 25 to 35)
I am from Hafizabad, Age 40, height 5.6, Khula, Accountant, MBA, Rajput, middle class families.
Looking for a religious life partner
Own separate house of both brothers, Educated Family.
Kindly refer to someone else if you are not looking or getting married.
A woman asked why I separated from my ex despite having a daughter.
I said, “It just didn’t work out.”
Instead of trying to understand, she immediately launched into a lecture about patience and how couples should stay together for the children.
What struck me wasn’t her opinion, it was her assumption that she knew enough to have one.
People see the outcome and think they’re qualified to judge the journey. They rarely know the sacrifices, struggles, and years someone may have spent trying to make things work.
I’m old enough to know that life is rarely as simple as outsiders make it sound.
Unmatched. Blocked. On with life.
The right person won't just admire your strengths. They'll respect your values, protect your peace, and appreciate the journey that shaped you.