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📚 Calling all Bookworms 🐛✨ we devour books faster than pizza (almost), so share the best thing you’ve read recently!
Assalamualaikum readers
Long time no see
Who else loves making bookmarks ?
I am planning to make more of these ✨😌🤭
Can anyone find me where can I find these books to order online?
- I choose me by Manisha Rana
- The next conversation by Jefferson Fisher
- To my siblings by Freya Winters
My book, “Adam and Iblees - The Choice” (https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0DV4HTZSY) deals with the timeless struggle that lies at the core of our existence—one between pride and humility, self-deception and self-awareness, stagnation and growth. Adam & Iblees - The Choice delves into this internal conflict through the stories of Adam and Iblees, offering profound lessons rooted in religion, philosophy, and psychology. This book invites readers to confront their own egos and embrace the transformative power of humility.
Through the contrasting choices of Adam and Iblees, we see two paths: Adam's humility and repentance leading to renewal, and Iblees' arrogance leading to ruin. Their stories are metaphors for the daily choices we all face—whether to acknowledge our faults and seek growth or to let pride stand in our way.
Religious teachings from Islam, Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, and Buddhism affirm that human imperfection is inevitable, but redemption is always possible. The book explores how different faiths emphasize the importance of seeking forgiveness and striving for self-improvement.
Philosophical perspectives, drawing from thinkers like Socrates, Aristotle, and Kierkegaard, reveal that humility is not just a moral virtue but a crucial element of wisdom and ethical living. Socrates' admission of ignorance and Aristotle's "Golden Mean" provide insights into the balance required to lead a meaningful life.
Psychological concepts such as cognitive dissonance, emotional intelligence, and the growth mindset offer practical tools for overcoming pride and fostering personal development. Carol Dweck’s research highlights the importance of viewing challenges as opportunities to learn rather than threats to our self-worth.
Pride and humility also shape our relationships. Whether in friendships, marriages, or workplaces, pride can erode trust and connection. This book offers practical strategies to cultivate humility in our interactions—through active listening, sincere apologies, and empathy.
More than just an intellectual exploration, Adam & Iblees - The Choice is a call to action. Reflective exercises and practical advice encourage readers to embark on their own journey of self-discovery, inspired by Adam’s example of humility and resilience.
Ultimately, this book underscores that true success is not about avoiding mistakes but about learning from them. Whether pursuing spiritual peace, personal growth, or meaningful relationships, the choice between humility and pride is pivotal.
As you read, consider: Where has pride held you back? How has humility helped you grow? What steps can you take to become more self-aware? The lessons of Adam and Iblees resonate deeply in our lives today.
The choice is yours—will you walk the path of humility and growth, or remain bound by pride? Adam & Iblees - The Choice invites you to embark on a journey of transformation and self-discovery.
Hello! Any good slow burn books recommendations? (Hopefully this is the right group for this)
My book, “Why Are We Here?” deals with the most fundamental questions that all human beings ask at some point in their lives, i.e. about the purpose of human existence on this planet. The book tackles this and other related questions from various angles. It uses the Quran, science, philosophy and logic to tackle these questions.
My two books: “Cognitive Intervention” and “Thinking Traps” use techniques of Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) to help people understand and overcome their destructive psychological patterns:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B0DBR76MTP
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Thinking-Traps-Cognitive-Distortions-Fallacies/dp/B0DK17N31T
My book “Broken Love: Why Relationships Fall Apart—and How to Repair Them” is available on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0H35TRVZ9
Book overview
Love doesn’t usually disappear overnight—relationships break down through patterns.
The same arguments. The same misunderstandings. The growing distance. The resentment that builds quietly over time. The feeling that the person you once felt so close to now seems impossible to reach.
If your relationship feels stuck in painful cycles of conflict, emotional disconnection, blame, mistrust, or frustration, this book will help you understand why—and more importantly, what you can do about it.
In Broken Love, Naveed Bari explores the hidden psychological patterns that damage relationships and shows you how to break them using practical, evidence-based tools drawn from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT).
This is not a book of vague advice or empty clichés.
It is a practical guide to understanding how your thoughts, beliefs, emotional reactions, communication habits, and unresolved wounds shape your relationship—and how changing those patterns can transform the way you connect.
Inside this book, you’ll discover:
Why couples keep having the same painful arguments
How cognitive distortions quietly fuel conflict and misunderstanding
Why emotional reactions often feel true—even when they aren’t
How resentment, blame, and defensiveness destroy intimacy
The hidden psychology behind trust issues, infidelity, and emotional disconnection
Why money, parenting, ***, and unmet expectations become battlegrounds
How childhood experiences and old emotional wounds shape adult relationships
Practical tools, scripts, exercises, and strategies to help you communicate better and reconnect
Through relatable relationship scenarios, psychological insights, and step-by-step exercises, this book helps you move beyond blame and begin identifying the patterns that keep you stuck.
Whether your relationship is in crisis, struggling with recurring conflict, or simply in need of deeper understanding, this book offers a path toward greater clarity, healing, and connection.
Because relationships rarely break because love disappears—
they break because destructive patterns go unrecognized.
And patterns can be changed.
If you’re ready to stop repeating painful cycles and start building a healthier, stronger relationship, this book is for you.
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